Does anyone know a spell to separate a couple?
Does anyone know a spell to separate a couple?
My ex-fiancée cheated on me and left me to be with her current partner. I want them to suffer and break up so I can get revenge — does anyone know a good spell to split them up? No judgments about moving on, I only want my revenge.
Re: Does anyone know a spell to separate a couple?
And then they will only want their revenge.
There are two of them - twice as much revenge!
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Chaotessiren
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I personally wouldn’t go that route with revenge. In my opinion, baneful magick is wonderful in so many ways, but should be used ethically and with much thought behind it.
When we seek revenge, we aren’t actually healing the part of ourselves that was hurt by the event. Getting revenge just hurts other people, and inevitably, ourselves.
As witches and occultists, many of us strive to heal ourselves and others.
In this situation, I would probably do a cord cutting ritual to sever any emotional and traumatic ties you have with this person. Then, I would consider using a mirror curse, which doesn’t actually cause any harm, but instead, forces the person who has wronged you to see what they have done by either experiencing the same thing themselves, or going through an event or internal battle that causes them to face their wrongs and how they have hurt you.
I hope this is helpful! If you are interested, I can post an ethical mirror curse to another comment.
When we seek revenge, we aren’t actually healing the part of ourselves that was hurt by the event. Getting revenge just hurts other people, and inevitably, ourselves.
As witches and occultists, many of us strive to heal ourselves and others.
In this situation, I would probably do a cord cutting ritual to sever any emotional and traumatic ties you have with this person. Then, I would consider using a mirror curse, which doesn’t actually cause any harm, but instead, forces the person who has wronged you to see what they have done by either experiencing the same thing themselves, or going through an event or internal battle that causes them to face their wrongs and how they have hurt you.
I hope this is helpful! If you are interested, I can post an ethical mirror curse to another comment.
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Chaotessiren
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Re: Does anyone know a spell to separate a couple?
Here is the ethical mirror curse I mentioned in the previous comment. Lmk if you can’t access it.
chrome://external-file/Ethical_Mirror_Curse.pdf
chrome://external-file/Ethical_Mirror_Curse.pdf
Re: Does anyone know a spell to separate a couple?
Chaotessiren wrote: Sat Jan 10, 2026 7:46 pm...I would consider using a mirror curse, which doesn’t actually cause any harm, but instead, forces the person who has wronged you to see what they have done ....
I have yet to see a situation where all the fault is on one side only.
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Yeah, sounds like a tough situation.....but one that is more common than one might think. Love is fickle and heartbreak brutal. I would usually give some advice on cutting cords and processing out a former partner's energy.....but sigh....it is what it is.
Take heart.....what goes around comes around. Cheaters end up being cheated on....as these types of people find each other. Move on.
Take heart.....what goes around comes around. Cheaters end up being cheated on....as these types of people find each other. Move on.

